When it comes to sex and foreplay, there are usually things that some enjoy and others don't. Some people may love getting a little rough, while others prefer slow and romantic. Some may have sensitive nipples, while others want to be touched in other erogenous zones. One of the best parts of getting to know someone new is getting to know what turns them on, what doesn't, and what turns you on together. And when you’re first having oral sex, you may be especially curious about the best blowjob techniques.
Giving oral sex should be pleasurable on both sides i.e the giver and the receiver should enjoy it. The receiver surely enjoys the sensation but the giver should also derive satisfaction in pleasuring his/her partner…when your partner is happy, you’re happy.
There are those who don’t like it at all. It irritates them. Do not force or guilt trip your partner to give or receive it. If your partner has never done it before but is willing to try, then it’s ok.
This is why it is important to consider sexual compatibility in a relationship or marriage. Ensure to choose a partner who can match up sexually, as well as other vital areas.
A lady once complained about how her boyfriend would always put a bowl nearby and spits in it while sucking her pussy. This means it irritates him and he cannot swallow…so he spits in the bowl continuously. This, of course, makes her very uncomfortable although she likes to be sucked.
In this case, it’s obvious that the guy was just doing it to please her.
Oral sex should be enjoyed by both parties. When your partner feels that you are enjoying sucking him/her, it gives this feeling of excitement and confidence, and also helps to bring about orgasm. It feels so good to know that your partner enjoys giving you pleasure by sucking you.
If you aren’t having fun pleasuring your partner, spare both of you the wahala and try something else.
During oral sex, use your fingers, tongue, lips, while maintaining eye contact most of the time. As you watch to see your partner’s expression, it helps you to know when to prolong a particular style. Do well to hide your teeth during oral sex. A little nibble is good but not everyone knows how to use the teeth well and this can be a turn off for your partner instead.
For the man, the dick cap and his balls are very sensitive. Lick along his shaft too and roll your tongue on the cap. Suck his balls and also the space between his dick and anus.
For the woman, every part of that place is super sensitive…as you suck on the clit, you can tongue-fuck her too. Your tongue does the most for her…use it well. You can finger-fuck her while sucking her clit.
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